I "Want" and it "is necessary": how to distinguish the desires from imposed by society?

Too many people spend money which they hardly earned, on thing which are not necessary to them to impress people who are not pleasant to them. About it the American journalist Will Rodzhers wrote in due time. And its phrase is actual to this day. As to define, whether there are we own vital course or follow someone's else? Probably, you all life went down stream, were the ideal good girl, did not make anything such about what it would be possible to regret subsequently. Parents on you will not rejoice, stable work and the relations are applied but why so drearily and does not leave feeling...